Women swipe right on safety, respect & real love this Women's Day

Women are ditching outdated norms and fairy-tale cliches for relationships on their own terms

Gone are the days of rigid gender roles and fairy-tale expectations— today’s single women are defining relationships on their own terms. Grand gestures and outdated traditions no longer take centre stage. Instead, modern dating is all about what truly matters- respect, safety, and shared values.

 

A recent Tinder survey reveals that 44 per cent of young women in India are excited about meeting new people, while 38 per cent seek new experiences, and 29 per cent appreciate dating without the pressure of finding a ‘happily ever after.’

 

"Modern dating is about rewriting the rulebook. It's no longer just about old-fashioned gestures, but about genuine respect and real connections. Women today prioritise mutual care over outdated norms, embracing relationships that truly resonate. Let’s celebrate this new era where every connection is built on the freedom to choose what feels right and safe," said Dr Chandni Tugnait, relationship expert for Tinder India.

  

Rule #1: Respect over outdated gender roles

 

According to Tinder’s in-app survey, young Indian women are redefining chivalry. A solid 51 per cent say that keeping promises—whether it’s following through on a planned call or showing up on time—matters more than grand gestures like holding the door open.

 

Meanwhile, 36 per cent value undivided attention on a date, meaning real conversations over symbolic acts. Respect for all genders and identities is also a top priority, with 31 per cent of young female Tinder users considering respectful language a key dating essential.